So........... Noticed I have a number of people listed on the PS3 as not having logged in for like 2 yrs but I know that they are active on the PS4. If I delete someone from my friends list on the PS3 will it remove them as a friend on the PS4. Having the 2 consoles not conversing with each other is causing me no amount of confusion. Messages and all.
Found that a little odd myself, factoring in that Vita and Playstation TV, are capable of showing both PS3 and PS4. Yet PS3 is unable to track PS4, although if someone is on PS3....I am able to see it on my PS4....very odd indeed.