hehe you Queensland people are funny I think Redman was surprised by the fact you had lights on during game playing? I turn mine down low to play for better rice. (I suggest you might like to use a lamp if you are dimmer challenged) From my office chair, where many a staff memeber has come to grief bowed on one knee, I reckon you've done your part. No to heavy curtains unless they buy them. Also, her having a peek through the window to check a disturbance is fine, it's called being neighbourly. Snoop also comes to mind, though.